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Personal Qualities

Extensive research studies have shown that a number of personal qualities of the psychotherapist or counsellor play a very important part in determining the effectiveness of the therapeutic relationship.

The personal qualities which contribute include:

  • Empathy: the quality which enables someone to enter the internal world of another person and be aware of what is going on there
     
  • Genuineness or Congruence: the quality which enables us to be aware of our own inner world and what is going on there;
     
  • Unconditional Positive Regard or Non-possessive Warmth: the quality which enables us to give consistent warmth of regard to another person;
     
  • Concreteness: the quality which enables us to put feelings and ideas into words which are not vague or abstract;
     
  • Respect: the quality which enables us to treat other people as on a level with ourselves, and worthy of our engagement with them;
     
  • Confrontation or Challenging: the quality which enables us to detect contradictions in what is being said and done, to detect falseness and bring it to notice;
     
  • Immediacy: the quality of being present in the here and now, which enables us to relate to and speak to what is coming up in the moment.


We believe that most people are capable of developing their personal qualities and, further, that counselling and psychotherapy training must provide the opportunity for their development.




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